Types of vibrators: A beginner’s guide to choosing the best one for you
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There are lots of different types of vibrators available: bullet, wand, rabbit, G-spot, wearable, clitoral, types of dildos with vibrations, and couples vibrators. Some focus on clitoral stimulation, while others provide penetration. When choosing a vibrator, it’s crucial to think about your sexual preferences and consider how you want to use it. Many women opt for a basic bullet vibrator for their first vibrator.
When it comes to choosing a vibrator, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the choices. A quick search online will bring up plenty of different types of vibrators, each boasting its own benefits. How do you know which vibrator is right for you? The good news is that you’re not limited to just one vibrator. Think of your vibrator collection as a toolbox filled with different tools for different jobs.
Vibrators and self-exploration are the best ways to figure out what you like sexually, learn more about your body, and discover what feels good. Experimenting with different styles is a great way to find your preferences and which vibrators are best for you. However, if you’re just looking to purchase a go-to vibrator for now, this guide will talk you through the different vibrator types, so you can pick the perfect vibrator for you.
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What is a vibrator?
Vibrators are some of the best sex toys for women that provide sexual stimulation. There are many different types of vibrators, from traditional dildos with vibrations to clitoral stimulators that mimic the sensations of oral sex. They come in all different vibrator shapes and sizes, so it’s worth shopping around before purchasing one.
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Different types of vibrators
There are lots of different types of vibrators available. Here are some of the most common:
- Bullet vibrators: These small vibrators are discreet and portable, so they’re easy to hold in your handbag. Bullet vibrators are great for beginners. The compact design allows them to provide targeted vibration to your clit. They’re also one of the more affordable types of vibrators.
- Wand vibrators: Larger than a bullet vibrator, wands are perfect for people who enjoy strong sensations. Wand vibrators are known for their strong, rumbly vibrations. Wand vibrators are designed for external use, and the large head provides decent coverage, so you can stimulate large areas at once. If your clit is too sensitive to directly touch, placing the wand nearby will still allow you to benefit from the vibrations.
- Rabbit vibrators: Featuring a shaft for penetration with a smaller arm (or rabbit) to provide clitoral stimulation, rabbit vibrators are ideal for blended orgasms. The rabbit vibrator is perfect for women who want it everywhere at once.
- G-spot vibrators: Unlike traditional dildos, which have a straight shaft, the G-spot vibrator boasts a curved tip for internal stimulation. The vibrator is designed to curve towards your stomach to hit the mythical G-spot (though it’s widely accepted by the general public, scientists are less convinced by the existence of the G-spot).
- Wearable vibrators: Wearable vibrators are discreet, hands-free vibrators for solo or couple play, and there are lots of options out there. Wearable panty vibrators use a metallic clip to stay in place, allowing you to keep your hands free for other things. Remote-controlled wearable vibrators can be controlled by your partner, allowing them to play an active role in your arousal and orgasm.
- Clitoral stimulators: A clitoral stimulator focuses solely on clitoral pleasure, making it a popular nominee in the category of best sex toy for women. This stimulation may come in the form of vibrations, pulses, or air stimulation that mimics oral sex. There are lots of different types of clitoral stimulators, so make sure you experiment with different designs to find the one that works best for you.
- Dildos with vibration: If you want a traditional dildo for penetration, a dildo with vibration will allow you to take things to the next level.
- Couple vibrators: If you want to use vibrators during sex with your partner, you’ll want a vibrator that enhances pleasure for both partners. There are many designs to choose from, including wearable devices for men that provide clitoral stimulation to their partners, which many feel is the best vibrator to use during sex.
How to choose the best vibrator for you
Vibrators are scientifically proven to improve sexual function, so a team of sexual health specialists collaborated to create guidelines for medical professionals to use when advising women on how to choose a vibrator. This research, published in Sexual and Relationship Therapy in 2018, concluded that women purchasing their first vibrator should choose one that allows flexibility to explore and determine personal preference.
Here are some points to consider when choosing a vibrator:
Experience
If this is your first vibrator, you may want to start your collection with a simple bullet vibrator. Choosing one that offers various speeds will allow you to determine the kind of stimulation that works for you.
Stimulation preferences
Sexual arousal is a very personal thing, so only you can determine which vibrator is best suited to your needs. Think about where you want the stimulation. Some people prefer internal stimulation, whereas others reach orgasm easier with clitoral stimulation. You may want to choose a vibrator that offers both, or one targeted to the stimulation you know you desire.
Discretion
Consider whether you want your vibrator to be discreet. If you do, you may want to opt for a silent vibrator. Be sure to try turning them on in the shop to assess the noise if sound is an issue for you. Some vibrators are small and compact, making them easier to hide. Others may be less discreet.
Settings
Some vibrates offer more settings than others. You may want a vibrator that offers numerous speeds, from a gentle hum all the way up to a high-intensity vibration. Having lots of options allows you to experiment with different settings to see which one is best.
Materials
Think carefully about the material of your vibrator. You want something hygienic, safe, and easy to clean. Body-safe silicone is the safest option for a vibrator.
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Why explore vibrators?
Vibrators can enhance pleasure, improve sexual function, and help you figure out what you like sexually. The best vibrators will help you orgasm and release sexual tension. Vibrations level up your masturbation sessions, allowing you to enjoy mind-blowing orgasms alone.
But, while you may think of vibrators as strictly a solo toy, many couples use them together. A vibrator can enhance sex with your partner, providing clitoral stimulation during sex. Some couples use wearable vibrators to stimulate the clit in hard-to-reach positions.
Vibrators are not a one-and-done situation. The first one you buy doesn’t have to last you until retirement. Build up a collection of different styles, so you have one to suit every occasion.
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Benefits of vibrators
There are lots of potential benefits to vibrator use, including:
Health benefits
Regular orgasms are good for your health, and a vibrator can help you orgasm. A 2024 study published in the International Urogynaecology Journal found that regular vibrator use was associated with sexual, genitourinary, and mental health.
Improved sexual function
The term “sexual function” is used to describe sexual desire, arousal, orgasm, and satisfaction. A 2009 study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that vibrator use was associated with positive sexual function.
A better understanding of sexual likes
Using a vibrator helps you figure out what makes you orgasm. With this newly acquired knowledge, you can better communicate your sexual needs to your partner. There is an orgasm gap in the bedroom, with men more likely to orgasm than women, and communication is a crucial step in closing the gap.
Questions from the Femia community
Are rechargeable vibrators better than battery-powered ones?
Many modern vibrators are rechargeable, so they can be recharged when they run out of power. Rechargeable vibrators are an eco-friendly and cost-effective alternative to disposable batteries.
Can vibrators help with sexual dysfunction?
Yes, there are plenty of studies mentioned in this guide that have highlighted the link between vibrators and improved sexual function. For example, a 2018 study published in Sexual and Relationship Therapy concluded that vibratory stimulation was associated with improved sexual function.
Are there quiet vibrators for discreet use?
Yes, there are plenty of quiet vibrators to choose from. Visit an adult shop, and try switching them on to see which are quietest before purchasing.
Can vibrators be used during sex with a partner?
Yes, vibrators are the perfect way to improve your sex life. Wearable or couple’s vibrators are designed for shared pleasure, ensuring you both enjoy using the vibrator.
How do I clean a vibrator?
Wash your vibrator with warm water and a mild soap or a cleaning solution designed for sex toys.
The bottom line
Vibrators can improve sexual function, increase your sexual pleasure, and help you figure out exactly what makes you orgasm, making them an important tool in every woman’s life.
If you’re in the market for your first vibrator, shop around to find the one best suited to your needs. Consider the type of stimulation you like and how you’d like to use the vibrator. Be sure to choose one made from body-safe silicone, and clean it carefully before and after each use.
Whether you want the vibrator for yourself or to use with your partner, a vibrator will allow you to experience intense orgasms (in a good way), new sensations, and explore your sexuality. Don’t be afraid to ask your close female friends for their recommendations for the best women’s sex toys. If in doubt, go for something simple when buying your first vibrator.
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